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		<title>1st Annual Golf Tournament</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/05/17/1st-annual-golf-tournament/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 May 2012 20:52:16 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Fred Keas Real Estate Inaugural Hope Harbor Charity Golf Tournament]]></description>
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		<title>Rags for riches? Well, almost!</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/05/02/rags-for-riches-well-almost/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 May 2012 14:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We'll take your rags, your unwanted, the clothes you'd rather throw away and turn it into revenue we could use.  ]]></description>
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<p>Times are financially tough for Hope Harbor as it is for everyone. Donations have been on the decline and the expenses continue to climb. BUT, <strong>a window of opportunity has opened!</strong> An opportunity to create revenue that potentially can make up lost contributions and counter the rising expenses. Please take a few minutes to carefully read about this window the Lord has opened to us. It truly is a <strong>rags for riches</strong> opportunity.</p>
<p>In March of 2011, with the help of generous donors, we opened our thrift store, “Thrift Harbor,” in downtown Claremore. After the initial donations of clothes and other thrift items we quickly realized the potential revenue stream that was developing. Since the clothes and items were in such great shape and were being sold at a very affordable price, <strong>word was quickly spreading and sales are higher than we expected</strong>. We are actually projecting Thrift Harbor’s income above expenses for 2012 to exceed $50,000. Still, that is only a portion of the annual deficit that befalls us.<img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1318" style="margin-top: 3px; margin-bottom: 3px; border-width: 1px; border-color: black; border-style: solid;" title="kidsandbin" src="http://www.hopeharborinc.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/kidsandbin-282x300.png" alt="" width="282" height="300" /></p>
<p>Our experience though has revealed that this window, as wide open as it appeared to be, is not fully opened. The thrift store donations are coming in from just a handful of churches and individuals, and there is customer demand for more. <strong>We need more clothing and thrift items donated</strong>, so we are building collection boxes and asking churches and businesses to place them on their property. <strong>Initially, we are establishing routes within a 100 mile radius of Hope Harbor that will insure the boxes are emptied approximately every two weeks</strong>. Provisions are also being made to make sure the box always remains a source of income for Hope Harbor. Will you consider hosting a collection box? Before you make a decision, consider the following key points:</p>
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<li>Collection boxes are 4’x4’x6’, blue, made of wood, painted nicely, with clear signs showing donations are for Hope Harbor Children’s Home.</li>
<li>The boxes will be emptied approximately every 2 weeks or as needed so that nothing builds up outside the box.</li>
<li>Separate collection days can also be arranged by calling the phone number on the box.</li>
<li>A key to the box will be provided to the office or an identified member.</li>
<li>This benefits Hope Harbor AND the members of your congregation.</li>
<li>This is a ministry requiring <span style="text-decoration: underline;">minimal</span> effort but making a huge difference!</li>
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<p>Maybe you (church, business or individual) would rather donate $400 toward building a box? Bear in mind, funds are available from a couple generous donors which will match your contribution dollar for dollar. Your donation will essentially build two boxes!</p>
<p>Most importantly, we ask that you <strong>pray for our efforts</strong> to properly and efficiently utilize this window the Lord has opened for us.</p>
<p>To learn more about how you can host a donation bin. Call Shane McClaugherty at (918-855-1389) or (918-343-0003, ext. 226).</p>
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		<title>Restoring Hope</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/04/19/restoring-hope/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 14:34:00 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To Hope Harbor, it means doing everything we possibily can to change the lives of as many children and families as possible.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Restoring hope and equipping children and families for lives with meaning and purpose.  It&#8217;s the mission statement Hope Harbor has taken on, but what does it mean?  To Hope Harbor, it means doing everything we possibily can to change the lives of as many children and families as possible.  It means staff members who lovingly commit their time to work with teens and their families through the Children&#8217;s Home and Academy.  It means providing counseling in the community to help children of all ages who don&#8217;t need residential placement, but who need individual help or whose families need counseling.  It means offering parent training through church and community settings to help mothers, fathers, grandparents, and all other caretakers to be effective in the lives of children.  It means taking parent training into prison settings to teach mothers and fathers who are in jail what they can still do to help keep their children from following the same path.  And it means offering all of these services regardless of ability to pay.</p>
<p>Hope Harbor has set an ambitious target of serving 2,000 people a year by 2015.  We&#8217;re well on our way to meeting, and hopefully exceeding that target.  Along the way, opportunities to provide a low-cost thrift store in Claremore, one that serves the needs of the community while still raising funds to support Hope Harbor&#8217;s efforts, has unfolded at a surprisingly rapid pace.  As so many individuals and families struggle with economic hardship, Thrift Harbor has given us one more way of restoring hope.</p>
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		<title>$1,000,000 donation?</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/04/16/1000000-donation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2012 18:59:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Just today, another child had to be denied services because we have no room. ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I had a very interesting conversation with our Executive Director, Dr. Ralph Richardson. I asked him what he would do if Hope Harbor inherited $1,000,000? His response? He said he would want to improve on the model of care Hope Harbor is already providing. How?</p>
<ul>
<li>Adding a cottage, hiring additional house parents, and admitting more children.</li>
<li>Expand the foster care program to not only care for kids who have completed our program and have no family to return to, but care for kids too young for our residential program.</li>
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<p>I love his focus on the children and his desire to ensure the best quality care for the children. But in addition to his focus, he also understands the need to prepare for the future. How?</p>
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<li>Establish an endowment.</li>
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<p>Like most Executive Directors, Dr. Richardson feels establishing an endowment for Hope Harbor is essential in ensuring the future of Hope Harbor. An endowment would provide lasting monies to ensure continued quality care for years and decades to come.</p>
<p>There seem to be more children than ever needing the services Hope Harbor provides. Our hands are tied though. Just today, another child had to be denied services because we have no room. We have the expertise and the programs to serve more children. We just need more cottages, foster homes, staff, and well… money.</p>
<p>It’s not unheard of for Hope Harbor to receive money because a donor remembers them in their will. We are grateful for those who did remember and we are grateful for those who will remember us, whether it’s millions or just hundreds of dollars.</p>
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		<title>The Prognosis? Heart Attack?</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/03/19/the-prognosis-heart-attack/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Mar 2012 02:24:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I was only 39, and while it can happen, it is unlikely I would suffer from a heart attack. But just three years ago, I thought I was.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was only 39, and while it can happen, it is unlikely I would suffer from a heart attack. But just three years ago, I thought I was. After a doctor’s visit and some tests, the Cardiologist looked at me and said, “Son, you just need to relax!” The prognosis? Anxiety! Of course, I was relieved it wasn’t my heart but the more I thought about the prognosis, the more disappointed I became in myself. I prayed to the Father, asking for forgiveness for my lack of faith in Him. You see, the anxiety was coming from the shortfall in financial support as I planned to attend a school of preaching. I had sent out letters, made personal contacts, and laid all the groundwork I was capable of laying. But now I only had three months before classes started. My house had not sold. I still had not raised half the support needed. And the anxiety was taking hold. Today, I am a graduate of the Bear Valley Bible Institute! Yes, God came through and provided! I learned a valuable lesson during those two years, one which I hope I’ll never forget. Do all you can, but remember to trust in God! Sure, I periodically have moments of anxiety, but I also have reminders that God is faithful! It is hard not to worry at times, especially working for a non-profit during a tough economy. Hope Harbor has depended upon the church and individuals for 65 years, and many of them are now struggling as well. As churches and individuals have struggled, the result has been a deficit of almost $300,000. Yet, the Lord continues to bless us greatly. Annually, we serve more people than ever before through our expansion into off-site services. Those services include our off-site Christian counseling center, parent training workshops offered through various congregations, and parent training classes in local prisons. How, you ask? Through significant budget changes, major staff adjustments, and sacrifice. We’ve also been able to hold on due to reserve funds that were made available from the Hope Harbor Foundation, but these funds are diminishing rapidly. Still, our faith rests in God and He continues to provide. This time last year we established our thrift store and a recycling program. They both continue to grow and produce some revenue – thanks to all of you who donate the clothes and items for the store! Potentially, the recycling program alone could net us $250,000 per year (though it may take several years for it to reach this point) – so keep those clothing donations coming in… regardless of condition! Combined, the thrift store and recycling could amount to $300,000 in revenue. Yes, the Lord will provide, we are certain of it! If you have felt the effects of the economy know this, God provides! Pray for His guidance. Continue to work hard and never lose faith. He will take care of you!</p>
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		<title>No Will? Don&#8217;t Worry, Government&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/02/10/no-will-dont-worry-government/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Feb 2012 16:03:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[...will make that decision for you. Most people put off this very important decision process because they are not exactly sure of what to do or what can be done. Here is what you can do...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imagine you are a fly on the wall during a court proceeding. The judge is about to make a decision concerning property of yours. As you watch and listen, you realize you cannot make known to him your thoughts and feelings. He listens to testimony from several people who are laying claim to your belongings and other assets. The claimants could include anyone, because it is a public court proceeding called Probate Court.<br />
You may have heard many things concerning probate court, but nothing is for sure until the judge makes the final judgment. Concerning your affairs, what documents would he have from you to make that final decision? How is he going to judge when he looks at the evidence placed before him by those who say they are the rightful heirs?<br />
Nationally more than 60% of Americans do not have a will and where there is no last will and testament, then the government will make that decision for you. Most people put off this very important decision process because they are not exactly sure of what to do or what can be done. Hope Harbor and Oklahoma Christian University would like to offer you an opportunity to get some questions answered and gain some guidance for your decisions. Saturday, March 3rd, the Blue Starr Church of Christ is hosting an Estate Planning Seminar. An attorney from OCU, specializing in Financial/Estate Planning, will be the presenter. The seminar will begin at 10:00 a.m. with two 50-minute sessions and a lunch. If you are interested in attending please contact me at 918-343-0003 (222) or <a title="Estate Planning Seminar Sign-up" href="http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/estate-planning-seminar-sign-up/">Click Here</a> sign up. There is no cost for this seminar.</p>
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		<title>Playful Competition for a Serious Purpose</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/01/24/playful-competition-for-a-serious-purpose/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2012 22:56:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[On May 13th, the youth leader of one youth group in the Tulsa area will be doused with chocolate syrup or whatever “treat” is chosen this year. His youth group will...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On May 13th, the youth leader of one youth group in the Tulsa area will be doused with chocolate syrup or whatever “treat” is chosen this year. His youth group will get to do the honors. Cameras will capture the moment, and a memory of fun and laughter will be firmly established. But behind the fun, a deeper purpose will be accomplished as well. The funds raised through the a playful competition will be used to support efforts to prevent child abuse and neglect – so other children and teens can have moments of laughter instead of sadness and fear.</p>
<p>Hope Harbor’s annual Change Campaign generally launches in April, but this year’s Teen Challenge got an early start. Area youth groups are already competing to see who can raise the most change (totals are actually divided by the number of members in the youth group to keep the competition fair) toward Hope Harbor’s efforts to prevent child abuse and neglect through parent education and early intervention with Christian counseling.</p>
<p>To launch the first Teen Challenge, teens were asked to consider the sheer number of children throughout the United States who face abuse and neglect each year. This year, a different approach was used – teens were asked to consider the story of one single child. One child who would be abused. One child whose life would eventually be lost. And they were asked to consider, if they could change the story for that one child, whether they would. We all hear terrifying facts and staggering numbers. The problems of others become almost abstract when we know there are so many. But if we can think of changing one life, one story, the question becomes more challenging; Will we help?</p>
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		<title>New Year&#8217;s Goal</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2012/01/20/new-years-goal/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 19:52:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Recently I was challenged by a good friend to not make a “New Year’s Resolution.” He said, “You’ll just break it in a few days or couple of weeks.” At first I was thinking, “Now wait a minute,” until he went on to explain, “Instead of the typical New Year’s resolution, set...]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recently I was challenged by a good friend to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">not</span> make a “New Year’s Resolution.” He said, “You’ll just break it in a few days or couple of weeks.” At first I was thinking, “Now wait a minute,” until he went on to explain, “Instead of the typical New Year’s resolution, set a goal and work to achieve it.”</p>
<p>I have given this much thought and I have decided to establish a “New Year’s Goal.” My wife and I want to increase our weekly contribution. 2 Corinthians 9:7 tells us to give as we purpose in our hearts and 2 Corinthians 1:22 refers to God putting the Holy Spirit in our hearts as a down payment of His promise. I find it troubling that my heart is the very avenue by which I have physical and spiritual life, yet I have always struggled in my giving.</p>
<p>For the longest time we have only given about 2-3% of our gross income and we want to increase that amount to at least 10% before the end of the year. When we consider our giving is in response to what God has blessed us with, we felt 10% was the least we should give. While the Old Testament is no longer binding, it did set a standard under an old covenant. The old covenant was then replaced by a better covenant through which we have the hope of eternal life. It just seems logical to give more because of a better covenant. &#8211; Chris Brill</p>
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		<title>Children who teach us&#8230;</title>
		<link>http://hopeharborinc.org/index.php/2011/12/22/children-teachers/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Dec 2011 15:05:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Chris Brill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ten years ago a little eight year old girl told me that I was selfish and I needed a change of attitude. Here is what happened…]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ten years ago a little eight year old girl told me that I was selfish and I needed a change of attitude. Here is what happened…</p>
<p>One Sunday, I was preparing to make a presentation to a congregation about the need to support children in their affliction. As I was meeting people, I noticed a little girl patiently waiting. Beside her appeared to be her mother, who seemed eager to speak to me. As soon as I could I gave her my attention. Excited and full of pride she proceeded to tell me her daughter had been saving something special. I knelt down and greeted the young lady. I do not remember her name, as I probably should, but she held out her hand to greet mine and then handed over a wrapped container. Her mother told me she saved a little over $8 in change, originally planned for her birthday and, on her own, she decided it was more useful to the children than for her birthday.</p>
<p>Without a single word, the little girl spoke volumes. When she selflessly handed over something of great value to her, for the purpose of helping others, it caused me to examine myself. Over time, as I pondered this encounter, I have come to realize that I am selfish and I need to have the attitude of this little girl.</p>
<p>Jesus tells us in Mark 10:15, Truly I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child will not enter it at all.” (NASB)</p>
<p>There are many things we can learn from a child, including our attitude of giving.</p>
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